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Books

Recommended Materials

Navigating the journey of fostering, adoption, and parenting children who have experienced trauma comes with many transitions and challenges. The materials I recommend have been invaluable resources for parents, offering guidance on trauma-informed care for both their children and themselves. These carefully selected reads provide practical tools, insight, and encouragement to help parents support their child’s healing while also prioritizing their own emotional well-being during difficult times.

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Zombie Dice

Zombie Dice

Steve Jackson Games

Zombie Dice is already built around weighing risk vs. reward, which makes it perfect for talking with teens about how choices have consequences.

Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain

Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain

Daniel J. Siegel

This book dives into the important changes in the brain that occur between the ages of 12-24. Dr. Daniel busts myths about adolescence and immaturity and explores how understanding brain functionality at these stages improves the lives of youth and ultimately their relationships.

The TBRI Podcast

The TBRI Podcast

Dr. Karyn Purvis

The TBRI Podcast is an essential listen for professionals supporting children with attachment and developmental trauma. I value its in-depth discussions on trust-based principles, real-world case applications, and expert insights that translate directly into effective strategies for building safety, connection, and lasting behavioral change.

Other Parents Like Me

Other Parents Like Me

Casie Fariello and Liz Reitman

The OPLM (Other Parents Like Me) website is designed exclusively for parents of teens and young adults struggling with mental health challenges.

Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza

Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza

Bored Game Company

This game normalizes mistakes as learning moments. It fosters attention, impulse control, emotional regulation, and social skills through turn-taking and sportsmanship.

Greedy Granny

Greedy Granny

Goliath Games

Greedy Granny is more than just silly fun; it helps kids tune into the body signals that come with excitement and mild stress, like a racing heart or sweaty hands. By noticing these sensations in a safe, playful setting, children can start making the connection between what their body feels and the emotions they’re experiencing.

The Whole-Brain Child

The Whole-Brain Child

Daniel J. Siegel M.D.

The Whole-Brain Child offers clear, compassionate guidance on understanding your child’s developing brain and responding to big emotions with connection. A practical, science-based read for fostering emotional regulation and healthy attachment.

Brain-Body Parenting

Brain-Body Parenting

Mona Delahooke

Brain-Body Parenting is a powerful resource for any parent who longs to understand what’s really happening beneath their child’s behavior. Dr. Mona Delahooke beautifully explains how the nervous system shapes a child’s reactions and offers trauma-informed, compassionate tools that help parents shift from managing behavior to nurturing resilience and connection.

What Happened to You

What Happened to You

Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey

This book offers a powerful introduction to understanding how past experiences shape behavior. It encourages a shift in perspective from "What is wrong with you?" to "What happened to you?" fostering empathy and deeper insight.

Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors

Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors

Robyn Gobbel

If you are an adoptive or foster parent, Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors is a must-read. Robyn Gobbel writes with compassion and clarity about children whose survival brains often drive their actions, and she offers practical, neuroscience-informed strategies that actually work in real-life parenting.

The Primal Wound

The Primal Wound

Nancy Newton Verrier

This book is a vital read for parents whose adoption journey began at birth. It offers a profound understanding of how early separation from birth mothers impacts an adoptee’s attachment, bonding, and relationships throughout life. Through insights into pre- and perinatal psychology, the book reshapes perspectives on adoption and the lifelong effects of this primal loss.

How We Love

How We Love

Milan & Kay Yerkovich

The way we love today often traces back to the way we were loved as children—these books unpack that powerful link.

How We Love Our Kids

How We Love Our Kids

Milan & Kay Yerkovich

This book explores how our upbringing shapes our love styles and influences our most important relationships.

The Rabbit Listened

The Rabbit Listened

Cori Do

This story gently illustrates a core principle that children need connection. The rabbit models what it means to co-regulate—to sit with a child in their pain, allowing them to feel seen, safe, and supported

The Body Keeps the Score

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.

This book provides an in-depth understanding on how trauma affects the mind, body, and brain, highlighting the importance of healing for overall well-being.

The ChildPsych Podcast

The ChildPsych Podcast

Tania Johnson

A podcast that features interviews with top parenting and mental-health experts and offers research-driven, practical strategies for supporting children and teens.

The Honestly Adoption Podcast

The Honestly Adoption Podcast

Mike and Kristin Berry

The Honestly Adoption Podcast offers foster and adoptive parents real-life wisdom, compassion, and encouragement for the unique challenges of parenting kids with hard histories. Mike and Kristin Berry provide practical tools and honest conversations that help parents feel supported and equipped.

The Adoption Connection

The Adoption Connection

Lisa Qualls & Melissa Corkum

The Adoption Wise podcast is an invaluable resource for adoptive families navigating the complexities of attachment and trauma. As an LMHC, I appreciate how it blends expert insight with real-life stories to support parents in building trust, connection, and emotional safety with their children.

The Baffling Behavior Show

The Baffling Behavior Show

Robyn Gobbel

This podcast aligns beautifully with the values of respectful parenting, regulation support, and emotional safety. It’s an empowering listen that reminds caregivers they’re not alone—and gives them concrete strategies to support their child and themselves.

Famous at Home

Famous at Home

Dr. Josh & Christi

The Famous at Home podcast, hosted by Josh and Christi Straub, helps families grow in emotional connection and spiritual maturity. With their counseling expertise, they offer practical tools and biblical wisdom on marriage, parenting, and leadership.

Foster Parent Well

Foster Parent Well

Nicole T Barlow

Podcast by a foster/adoptive mom and TBRI Practitioner. Perfect for foster and adoptive parents.

Unbelievably Resilient

Unbelievably Resilient

Multiple Authors

The Unbelievably Resilient Podcast, created by those with firsthand experience in foster care, shares powerful stories of resilience, growth, and reclaiming identity beyond trauma. This is a great podcast for anyone who fosters teens or works with youth who are aging out.

Attachment & Trauma Network, Inc.

Attachment & Trauma Network, Inc.

ATN

A nonprofit offering education, support, and advocacy for families raising children affected by early trauma and attachment challenges.

The National Child Trauma Stress Network

The National Child Trauma Stress Network

NCTSN

The NCTSN website offers parents and caregivers a wealth of trauma-informed resources from fact sheets to interactive training that help demystify why children act the way they do after scary or overwhelming events. It equips families with practical, research-backed guidance on helping children heal, build resilience, and thrive in everyday life.

Robyn Gobbel

Robyn Gobbel

Author

Robyn Gobbel’s work is a compassionate, research-informed guide for anyone raising or supporting kids with big behaviors. Her website is packed with accessible tools, webinars, and resources that help parents and professionals shift from reacting to behavior… to understanding what’s underneath it.

The National Child Trauma Stress Network

The National Child Trauma Stress Network

Lisa M. Amaya-Jackson

The National Child Traumatic Stress Network website is a trusted, evidence-based resource for understanding and responding to childhood trauma. It offers practical tools, trauma-informed guidance, and a deep commitment to healing and resilience for both professionals and caregivers.

Self-Compassion

Self-Compassion

Kristin Neff

 Self-guided practices for self-compassion can be a powerful anchor for anyone navigating stress, overwhelm, or self-criticism. These free audio resources from Dr. Kristin Neff offer gentle, research-backed support for tuning in, softening harsh inner dialogue, and meeting yourself with kindness—especially when life feels heavy.

Keep Connected

Keep Connected

Search Institute

Keep Connected is full of easy-to-use strategies that foster emotional safety, mutual understanding, and trust within families. These self-guided tools support caregivers in nurturing stronger bonds and intentional connection at every stage.

National Institute of Mental Health

National Institute of Mental Health

National Institute of Mental Health

I often recommend the National Institute of Mental Health for clear, reliable information on mental health. It’s a trusted resource to understand diagnoses, explore treatments, or learn more about what you or a loved one may be experiencing.

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