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Share your understanding of the TENDER approach and how it has impacted your parenting.

Hi Everyone,

I wanted to start a discussion on the best trauma-informed strategies you've found helpful when parenting a child who’s experienced trauma. As we all know, traditional parenting methods don’t always work with trauma-impacted kids, so finding what helps our children feel safe and supported is key.

Here are a few strategies I’ve found useful:

1. Safety First: Creating a calm, predictable environment helps children feel secure, which is critical for healing.

2. Empathy Over Punishment: Instead of reacting to misbehavior with punishment, try to understand the "why" behind their behavior. A calm, empathetic response can do wonders.